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Best Discord Dating Servers

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While Discord is typically used to connect gamers who are working as a team to dominate the game, it can also be used for multiple other purposes.

There is a broad range of Discord server types out there. People are able to find like-minded individuals in almost any category. But what if they are looking for love? In this post, we will cover five of the most popular Discord dating servers on the internet.

What is a Discord Dating Server?

A Discord dating server is a Discord server that was created for the purpose of helping other users meet new people to potentially date. The best dating servers have several options available to help people meet. They will also allow you to add roles to your profile so that others know what you are looking for.

Our Ranking Process

Here is what we considered when ranking the top 10 Discord Dating channels:

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    18+ Verification

    Discord doesn’t have an inbuilt system that ensures that users are over the age of consent. We checked servers to ensure that they had a manual way to verify users before allowing them into NSFW channels.

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    Large Userbase

    We looked for servers that have at least 500 Discord users. This way, there are plenty of people for you to meet and talk to.

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    LGBTQIA+ Friendly

    No matter who you are and what you’re looking for, you may be able to find the connections you want in one of these servers.

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    Active Mods/Admin

    One of the most important aspects of any dating server are active mods. They ensure that rules are being followed and that nobody is being harassed.

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    Clear Rules

    You should always make sure that the rules create an environment where you can meet people and stay safe. While the ideal rules will change from person to person, you can always leave a Discord channel if you don’t like it.

Top 5 Adult Discord Dating Servers

Here is a list of 5 Discord Dating Servers for those who are over the age of 18 years old:

  1. 1. PlayRoom – A Singles Discord Server

    Playroom is one of the largest dating servers on Discord. With thousands of potential connections, you’ll be able to meet new people online. In order to interact with others, you will need to verify yourself by following their verification guide.

    As the server is so large, Playroom does have some pay options that will allow you to post in the profile more frequently, create emotes, and post in additional rooms. Paying is entirely optional.

    The server is always popping, with people in chat rooms and spending time with each other in the lobby and other rooms. They have several features as well, including “Blind match” which essentially allows you to enter a 5-minute speed date with another participant.

  2. 2. Like 18+

    With over 15,000 members, Like 18+ is one of the most active Discord Dating servers on the platform. The server will ask you to make it a priority to prove both your gender and your age with one of the mods. If you are caught lying, you will be banned from the server immediately.

    Role choices include gender, age, sexual orientation, relationship status, location and several other options. Once verified, you will also be able to add a personal profile to the list with information about you and what you are looking for from the site.

    The server has many channels that allow you to share selfies, meet people, and meet new people that you can potentially date online.

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  3. 3. Noose 18+

    While anyone can join Noose 18+ regardless of their age, in order to have access to the NSFW channels, you will need to submit a photo of your with a valid photo ID. The server has over 1,000 members.

    Noose 18+ allows you to set your own roles, including your gender, sexual orientation, and relationship status. This way, other members will be able to see if you are available.

    Noose 18+ also frequently hosts giveaways, allowing members to win prizes. They even have voice chat rooms where you can go to talk to other members on the server.

  4. 4. World’s Lounge

    Before you can see anything else in World’s Lounge, you will need to read and agree to the rules. This will open up the rest of the server (outside of the NSFW channels). In order to see those, you will need to click another role, then have your age verified with one of the mods on duty.

    You can add roles such as your age, gender, whether or not you want DMs, sexual orientation, locations, kinks, and relationship status. There are also introductory sections where you can add some personal information about yourself to let others know what you are looking for.

    This dating server has multiple different channels for pictures or chat. They also regularly hold contests.

  5. 5. SKINS (Some Kind of NSFW Server)

    Upon entering SKINS, you will be asked to read the rules and react to them. After you have done so, you will go through lists to set your roles within the server (you will need to at least complete the gender, age, and DM status). This will open you up to the rest of the server.

    Like other dating servers, you will need to verify your age by sending an image of you and your photo ID in order to see NSFW material. They have several adult channels for both images and text that are not accessible to anyone without proper verification.

    There are also several other channels where people can chat or share SFW information with each other. The server also host several events, such as cooking shows.

  6. Cutie Club

    After joining the Cutie Club, you will be sent a message from a bot that will ask you to add your gender or age before getting access to the server. The 18+ server has several channels that allow you to chat with other members, browse profiles, and add selfies.

    If you find someone you would like to date, you can request to DM them. The server is very active with people to talk to almost all the time on almost any topic. After you have figured out the dating game for yourself, don’t forget to add your tips to the dating advice channel to help future Discord users also find their own cutie.

  7. Little Bunny

    One of the first things you will do when joining Little Bunny is give yourself several roles. They have roles for gender, age, sexuality, status, location, religion, zodiac sign, height, and several other interest points.

    The server has a long list of rules designed to keep them and their users safe. They also list the bannable offenses and allow members to contact the moderation team if there are problems. In order to see the NSFW channels, you will need to be verified.

    This dating server has several text channels as well as a few voice chat channels. When I was reviewing the server, several people were active in both. If, for some reason, the server doesn’t have everything you need, you can always request a new feature in their suggestions channel.

Where to Find Discord Dating Servers

If you are looking for a niche dating server on Discord or want something with fewer than 500 members, you can browse several promoted servers on the following three sites:

  1. 1. Top Discord Servers

    On Top Discord Servers, you can search for specific niches or browse dating servers based on votes or members. You will be able to read a little about each one before you decide to join. That way, you can be sure to find what you’re looking for quickly.

  2. Disboard

    Disboard allows you to both search for servers or use tags to narrow things down. The dark background is comfortable to look at and the descriptions are very easy to read. New listings are marked with a new tag so that if you check regularly, you’ll be able to pay closer attention to servers you haven’t seen yet.

  3. DiscordMe has a toggle button that allows you to hide servers that contain NSFW content. You can use tags to narrow down your search. Popular channels tend to get bumped on this platform so that you can find diamonds in the rough very quickly.


Whether you are looking for love or you just want to practice talking to others, Discord dating servers are a great place to meet like-minded individuals. Remember to treat others with respect or you might find yourself booted from one of these highly-moderated servers.

About the Author


Chris is a digital marketer with a strong background in small business and influencer branding. He applies his knowledge of content and promotional strategies to design actionable advice for new and intermediate streamers. When he’s not busy crunching analytics, he can be found in the salt pits of League of Legends.

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